It's not about treating others as you would like them to treat you

It is about treating others as they would like to be treated themselves.

It is about people understanding we are all different, and so "I" do not have the authority to decide how others want to be treated, or how they would like to behave, or what they like, or even what they are willing to tolerate.

It is not even about tolerating others...

It might be about accepting, but I even think it is about more than that, since we all want to be respected and even more received "as we are".

So, in the end, I think it is about receiving all as they would like to be received, loved as they would like to be loved, understood as they would like to understood. And when we are not able to understand them, we should at least respected and received as they wish to be received.

There are really only a little number of people who are bad and wish to harm others, most times we argue because we do not received others, or because others do not know how to receive us.